![]() Before long, you'll be able to read people really well, know what to say and what not to say, what boundaries to push and how to get across what an interesting person you are. This gives you a lot of social experience, allows you to try different tactics with people. When you're trying new stuff, talk to people. You're going to suck at most of it, but you're going to start getting experiences and have more interesting skills. ![]() I know its a longshot, but how do I start being someone people actually want to spend time with?īest advice I can give from a guy who was in your position 15 years ago. Which is why I have to initiate the contact 80% of the time I want to hang out with someone. Overall, I try to be a nice guy, I always stick to my word, I give advice to people when they're in the weeds, but I don't have much of an impact on people, nobody thinks "Oh wow I had a great, memorable time with TequilaAirplane yesterday, we should definitely chill again". ![]() The main reason (I think) is that I don't really stand out, and when they are with me, they know exactly what they're getting in the sense that I don't bring anything new to the table. I have a small circle of friends I consider close but I feel like I've been drifting apart from them as of late. To give you people a bit of context: I'm a 19 year old guy, been out of high school for a year and I currently work as a server for a small restaurant. Not sure if this is the best place to post, but I have to let it out somewhere.Īs you can probably gather from the title, I feel that I'm a boring person to be around without much to offer and that's been impairing my friendships & preventing me from getting very far in relationships. Moderators have full discretion in making decisions they deem to be in the best interest of the subreddit.
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